Looking Back

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There's an old saying, "If we fail to look at history, then we're doomed to repeat it."  Although I whole heartedly agree with this statement, I also believe that there are way too many people who only live in the past, therefore denying their ability to live in the present, and I might add, with zero hope of the future.  There are times when it's good to look back at things.  Most of the time, if wisdom is your guide, the moments you look back on will bring you joy, and not fear or dread.

What I want to do today is motivate you to step forward and stop allowing what may or may not have happened in the past stop you in your tracks.  Face it, you are never going to look through the side or rear view mirror in your vehicle and see what is in front of you.  I've known people who have made it an art form of living in the past.  Everything is "Remember the time", or "There was a time..."  Don't misunderstand me, I think it is perfectly fine to think back on things.  It's perfectly normal to remember those times that brought us joy, and even those times that were not so perfect.  The problem arises when we allow those times to define us, or even worse, restrict us from pursing future endeavors for fear that we might fail again.  Shit, I've failed more times then I would care to admit, but I'm still here, and I'm still doing what I know to do.

I was reflecting on this blog the other night.  I've been writing it for several years, and there's probably four or five hundred post that have been published over the last five or so years.  As I was thinking about the hundreds of thousands of words that have been written over that time, I was taken back by the sheer enormity of what I have tried to accomplish through my writing.  Now I may never know the lives I've touched with the words that I've written, but I believe there has always been a purpose for my writing.  Truth be told, if only one person in the entire world gets something from one of my post, then all the efforts over the years are well worth it.  I've never sought to monetize this blog.  Certainly there are ways to make money blogging, and I'm not opposed to making money that is for sure.  That being said, money has never been my motivation and I have tried to never be moved by what something can or cannot make me.  Looking back, I could always second guess myself and wonder what would have happened had I allowed advertising and such on this blog.  Would I be wealthier then I am right now, or would my motivation have been focused on something completely different then it is focused in on right now?

Let me give you one simple key to really get you headed in the right direction today:  if all you do is wonder what could have been, then what you are doing is continuing to look in the side and review mirror and all you will see is what is behind, and each thing you see will be getting smaller and smaller as you drive forward.  Look forward, and move forward.  Always remember that what is behind you is not nearly as important as what is right in front of you.  Think of it this way: if you're traveling down the highway at 75mph, do you look out the front window, or do you try to navigate your way down the road only using the review and side mirrors?  Trust me, your trip will be cut abruptly short if all you are using to focus on is something already gone by.  I know it seems as though I am beating a dead horse, but trust me, far too many people are living in the past and that is never going to help you with forward momentum.

Looking back, in moderation, has some merit, but that merit is diminished when the main focus is on all things past, and nothing of the present or future.  I'm a big fan of living in the moment, realizing that each moment is leading me to the next moment, and then the next, and the next.  I spent years playing the "What-if" game.  I've wasted more time and energy worrying about things that I could never change, because let's face it, things have already happened and you can't change what has already happened.  Still I was stubborn and refused to get out of my own way because I was bound and determined to change that which could never be changed.  Take my advice and get off the bandwagon of "Always Looking Back".  It might seem like the right thing to do, but constantly looking back is going to do nothing more then bring more regret, more sadness, and in some situations anger and violence.  Face it we have enough anger and violence going around right now in this world, do you really want to add to it simply because you refuse to look forward and only look behind you?

Looking back can teach, but those lessons will be short lived if all you do is live in the past.  There are times when I would love a do-over.  There are even times when a do-over of a do-over is desired. That being said, what could you possibly learn from a do-over that you haven't already learned from the experience you just went through?  Do-overs will never change the fact that each thing we go through in life has been set in front of us to teach us something.  Now there are those who will never learn the lesson, but they will continue to repeat things until the lesson is learned, that I promise you. Why not take from each situation those things that were intended to come out of the situation and learn from them.  Certainly lessons can be tough from time to time, but living in the past is going to catch up with you sooner or later, and when it does you are not going to like the results.

It's OK to look back at certain things with fondness.  Where peril comes in is when we look back at things and only see regret.  Regret and $2.95 might get you a hot cup of coffee.  Forget about regrets and instead look at the lessons learned and count your blessings that you in fact did learn something from the experience you may have just gone through.  Look back if you must, but keep it brief, keep it simple, and by all means keep it moving.  Remember a rolling stone gathers no moss.

The Angry Whisper

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Today I want to challenge you to change the way you think.  Today I want to challenge you to change the way you act.  Today, I want to give you a way of looking at things that just might change your entire perspective.  A simple truth that is never going to change, at least for most of us, is that we get angry. We also get frustrated, sad, melancholy, and often we refuse to acknowledge the reason why.

I am a terrible driver.  I have great driving skills, I just don't do well with idiotic drivers who can't seem to get anything right while they're on the road.  I know I'm not the only one who feels like this, so I consider myself in good company.  Here is my true confession for the day:  my frustration over other drivers is not really frustration for what they are doing, but rather frustration about my life and some of the things that I might be dealing with on any given day.  You see we often fire off at other people because quite frankly we are just pissed off at something about us, or something that is going on with us.  I think if people were to be honest with themselves they would say that they deal with the same thing.

I was sitting on my back porch last night and I was thinking about how things were for me in that moment.  I had two choices: I could accept what was going on, or I could change things up.  Now changing up things is not always simple, but often it is the best option.  The question then arises how does one change things up?  Well you change things up by changing the way you think about things, the way you see things, and by simply going back to basics.  Those basics are the truths that we should focus on each day. Those truths are solely about you, and those truths will show you who and what you are.  Once you are able to live in those truths, then most of what frustrates you will go away, and life will seemingly change over night.

So what are these truths?  Truth #1:  We were created to create.  You may not believe this, but you create your reality.  You create it with every word, every thought, and every feeling you have.  Sadly most people focus on the negative, which simply means they are creating more negative in their life.  Truth #2:  We are not merely mortals who occasionally have a spiritual experience, we are in fact spiritual beings who just so happen to inhabit a mortal body.  True Spirituality is knowing who and what you are, and then being free to be that person.  Sadly we have been conditioned to believe certain things, and anything contrary to those things, or anything that might be perceived as being out of the norm, is frowned upon by others who are no more spiritually minded then the man in the moon.  Truth #3:  We have not because we ask not, and we ask not because we don't believe.  You can wish, and wish, and wish for something until the cows come home, but if you don't really believe it is for you, then you can bet it won't be there for you.  I could list a thousand other truths about you, but then you'd be running out of the room screaming to stop the madness.  I think tackling the first three will suffice for today and we can add others as the days and months move on.

Would you agree with me that you do not have to believe in the Law of Gravity for it to have an affect on you?  Well the same can be said about the power of our words.  The Universe began with some simple words, and we often take for granted some of the words that slip out of our mouths.  Sadly once they are released you are doomed to live by the consequences.  If you can begin to be positive in your speech, positive in how you feel, and positive in what you do, isn't it more than likely that things will begin to be more positive?  After all, it's not rocket science.

We were created in the image of our creator.  If that is truth, then that makes us as spiritual as our creator and if we are in fact spiritual beings, then we have the entire universe as a resource for what we desire, what we dream, and for what we ultimately would like to become.  Sadly most people poo poo on the idea of spirituality as if it is something to run from.  Why is it that people always put down those things that they do not understand.  I guess it's easier to deny then take the time to figure out what is true and what is false.  Sadly much of what we have been taught growing up is false because it comes from a place of denial.  That denial being who and what we are.

How much greater would life be if you knew that you knew that each time you requested something you would get it?  If all you had to do was ask and pop there it was, how would that change your life?  The simplest of truths is that you have that ability, all you need to do is believe it, and although I can encourage you to believe certain things, it is entirely up to you what side of the equation you are going to fall onto.

You see, the angry whisper, is self-talk.  It is beating up on yourself with your words and feelings.  If you're angry, then simply admit you're angry, own it, but then get over it.  The easiest way to get over anger is to cover it with love.  Love wins out every time.  If you find yourself frustrated and that frustration is leading you to take action against others or yourself, then find the reason you're frustrated and fix it.  You can roll around in the mud for ever, but until you realize there is a way out of the mud pit, you are going to stay put.    Getting angry is human, but staying angry is idiotic.  Don't allow the Angry Whisper to guide your life, rather let it be your warning sign.  When frustration sets in about something you have no control over, like the idiot driver ahead of you, make peace with that person and thus enjoy peace in you.   Take a deep breath and think about it.

Sometimes I just don't know. At least that's how it feels.

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There are days that we sometimes just don't have a clue as to what to do, what is coming next, or what in the world is going on right now.  Sadly we will all have to contend with moments like this from time to time.  If there is a silver lining to this black thunder cloud it's knowing that you have all you need to contend with these moments.

Some will think that believing that you in fact do have all the answers is brazen and ridiculous.  I on the other hand, feel quite differently.  I am a firm believer that I process all that I need to be the person I was intended to be.  I believe this because I believe in the perfection of the Universe, and the perfection of me being here right now.  I also believe that I have all the answers because I am a spiritual being.  Only those who have never accepted their spirituality would doubt these words.  Once you have introduced yourself to your real self, then and only then can you confidently take on the challenges of each day.  Recognizing the voice of your spirit is key to any endeavor.  Listening to, and then following the guidance of your spirit is also key to being at the right place at the right time, and often that is the jump start that so many people desire.

Most of the time when we are having difficulty making a decision or coming up with a solution it is because we are spending so much time and energy on trying to figure things out, when what you should be doing is simply listening to your spirit.  Some might call this following your intuition, or following your gut.  No matter how you label it, it is all about becoming one with the real you.  So let me ask you, have you been introduced to the real you?  Have you been able to come to grips with who and what you are instead of listening to what everyone else says about you?  I believe that there has never been a better time to throw away the old and pick up on something that is as old as time itself, that being your spirit.  Your spirit was perfectly and completely formed long before you came out of your mother's womb.  Problem with most humans is that they never take the time to develop the relationship between spiritual and mortal.  We have grown to accept certain truths, that when looked at closely have no truth in them whatsoever.

I know this may seem confusing, but trust me, it's not as hard as it might seem.  Fact:  we've been conditioned since our birth to believe certain things.  Fact: we've been conditioned since our birth to see things a certain way.  Fact:  we've been conditioned since birth to depend on only those things we can see, touch, or smell, and everything else is just a fairy tale.  Well let me tell you that operating from a spiritual level is anything but a fairy tale.  Operating from a spiritual level is what is going to put you where you need to be, doing what you were intended to do, and quite frankly placing you in a place that is surrounded with peace, joy, happiness, and abundance.  Now I'm not a betting man, but given the option to live in peace, joy, and happiness or living in the mundane that so many people are experiencing, my guess is most would choose the peace and joy.  Now I might be wrong on this, but somehow I think I'm on to something, and I would suggest that you get on the band wagon and start living the life you were intended to live.  We were never intended to be walking around with doubt, with despair, with wondering when the other shoe is going to drop, and most importantly wondering if this is as good as it gets.  We were created to create.   Did you hear me, we were created to create.  Sadly most of the words out of our mouth create nothing but chaos, and we wonder why things are so messed up all the time.  Trust me, I am just as guilty of putting things out into the universe with my tongue.  The thing I have learned over the years is the importance and appropriateness of simply waiting to speak.  I have learned to take a few seconds and think about what I want to say and how I want to say it.  Trust me when I bust out like a bull in a china shop with my words, more often then not I wind up with egg on my face and a whole lot of acid in my stomach.  Think before you speak, and listen to what your spirit is telling you.  The heart speaks only truth, and most people have discounted the things of the heart for far too long.

I recognize that there are times when feelings can override almost everything around you.  I totally understand that there are moments when you don't have an answer or the answers seem to distance themselves from you.  I've been in situations where I knew what I wanted, but had no idea how to get what I wanted.  Conversely, I've also accepted certain things, only discovering after the fact that what I thought I wanted wasn't what I needed.  There is no doubt that life is confusing at best.  Why in heavens name would anyone not want to have a helper on their side, set in place to be the perfect guide for anything in your life?  That helper is your spirit, your soul, your heart of heart.  Don't believe that you are not equipped to handle all that life throws at you.  That is a lie that has been perpetuated through the conditioning of man.  You are fully able to handle all that you face, and once you begin to listen to your spirit, follow the guidance of your spirit, then you will know true victory in life.

When I feel as though I am no longer in control, I look inside of my self and follow what my heart tells me.  I promise you that your heart will never lead you astray.  It may take you some time to familiarize yourself with your true self, but let me tell you, it is worth the effort to do so.

The times we live in. Did you ever think it would get like this?

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These are some crazy times, that is for sure.  It's hard to turn on the television or listen to the news on the radio and not have to hear about this protest or another event that is causing tension all over the place. Now before you think I'm going to go off on some political rant, I can assure you I am not.  One of the things I promised myself when I began this blog nearly six years ago was I was going to write about destiny and what one could do to discover their own destiny.  What I want to write about today is why destiny is so important, and why much of what we are seeing on the TV today is simply because there are many who haven't a clue as to what destiny is, let alone walking in their own destiny.

I've spent the better part of the summer taking an inventory of my life and plotting out future steps that will allow me to take a much deeper trek into my own destiny.  There are things that I want to accomplish in life, not because they will benefit me, but because they will benefit the rest of the human race.  I will be honest and tell you that I resisted my destiny. There were moments when I ran away from it, mostly because it scared the daylights out of me. Who was I to think that I could change the world for the better by speaking, writing, and sharing about destiny to whoever would listen.  Well after years and years of resistance I decided to stop running from the inevitable and simply accept my calling.

I've looked at all the chaos going on around the world and in our own country and I can only surmise that the one thing lacking in most of these boisterous people is a lack of knowledge as to why they are here on this planet at this moment, and what is the proper use of their talents.  I don't doubt that they have passion for their cause, but passion, true passion, should be reserved for those things that cause good and not harm.  I've watched over the last eight months or so a total breakdown in how we accept certain things, or in some cases refuse to accept some things.  Hate is rising and concern for others has taken a backseat to those who simply want to destroy anything that might be contrary to their way of thinking, even if their thinking is wrong.

I've said many times in the past that everyone has a destiny.  Now while not everyone will accept their destiny, you can't change what was intended from the beginning of time.  You see, I'm a true believer.  I believe in destiny.  I believe that everyone has a purpose, and I also believe that unless one is walking in their intended purpose in life then there will be a void in their life.  I've tried to fill that void with almost every manner of things simply to stop the pain of the void in my life.  It wasn't until I finally accepted what was inside of me that I was able to let go of those things that never served me well and focused on those things that were right for me.   Take a look at people who walk around day in and day out without a purpose.  These people are void of true passion and these very same people are the ones who try to fill the void with stuff that amounts to nothing more then hate, intolerance, bigotry and anything else that will make them feel better about themselves.

We talk about generation gaps.  My parents didn't understand me, their parents didn't understand them.  I look at millennials and I have a hard time understanding what is going through their minds.  So many of them walk around and have this entitlement mentality.  It's as though the world owes them something, and they are bound and determined to have what is owed to them.  Many feel as though they should be served up everything that is good in life on a silver platter and there is no need to work for what they want.  Now I know this is a huge generalization, but bear with me and you will see where I am going with this.  If you feel you are owed something in life, then you need to think about this:  if it's worth having it's worth working for, and if it's worth doing, then it's worth doing right.  These are two rules of life that my parents instilled in me.  I live it each day, and each day I have to decide whether I am going to do what is right, or simply fall back on to those things that are simple.  Face it, doing what is right is not always the simplest way of doing things.

In these times that we live in we are in need of insight like never before.  We need to look inside of ourselves and figure out why we are here, and what is the best use of our time while on this planet in this mortal body.  You can sit around day after day, week after week, month after month, and yes year after year, wondering what in tarnation you are supposed to be doing with your life.  Trust me, if you are just sitting around waiting for something to drop into your lap, then you will probably fall prey to a lot of the garbage that is out there today, and if you do this, then you are going to end up getting a whole lot of nothing in your life.

Destiny is why you are here.  Destiny is what you should be reaching for.  If you are wise you will follow your passion, true passion.  If every person on this planet made the determination to follow their passion we would not have the upheaval we have today.  Yes there will be times when we believe in different things, want different things, and there will be times when we just don't see eye to eye.  This does not give us the right to destroy things, nor does it justify some of the vicious stuff that is going on in our streets right now.  If you are like me, growing weary of the hate and discontent, then maybe it's time to talk to others about destiny.  Maybe it's time to shine the light on the darkness.  Maybe it's just time that you step out into those things that were meant for you, and allow yourself the opportunity to be the real you.  The world needs those who are true to themselves and not simply true to a movement.  If we are going to move forward, if we are going to improve our own lives and the lives of others then we are going to have to accept our destiny and walk in it.  Only then will our world turn the corner and become what it was always intended to be.  Think about it, and then move on it.  It will change your life forever.

Everyone is talking about it.

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Everyone is talking about this "Once in a lifetime" event.  Will you be outside today observing the sun and moon dance about?  It's kind of funny that today marks the end of my summer long sabbatical.  I always take a few months off in the summer just to relax, rejuvenate, and to simply take a break.  So I begin my next nine month journey with this heavenly sign.  To those who are spiritually minded I'm sure you are feeling the excitement that this solar event is going to bring about.  I've been listening and reading numerous postings on social media about the eclipse.  I would be a liar if I did not admit that I am looking forward to what is being ushered in from the universe.  To those who are willing to listen and pick up on what is taking place, I will bet you also have an anticipation of what is coming down the pike.

Events like today's have been going on since the beginning of time. However, if this is the first time you have seen a total eclipse, and for many I'm sure it is, then I am very sure that there is some anticipation on your part as to what the whole thing means in regards to the Universe, your mission in life, and things that will be set in place because of this miracle.   Here's how I see today's events:  it's a launching pad for things that you have been waiting for.  I believe it will bring freshness to those who need it, and to those who are looking for a breakout, then this is the time to expect such a breakout.

I've spent the last three months taking an inventory of the things I want to do, the things I want to try for the first time, and those things that I want to get rid of, that no longer serve me.  I've learned a lot over the the last One Hundred or so days, and one of the big things that I have taken away from my time of reflection is that we all need a launching pad of sorts from time to time.  There are few things in life that have assurances.  Sure we can always talk about death and taxes, but in all seriousness, there are only a few things that can be guaranteed. Once such thing is the assurance that you have a destiny.  Now whether you ever open up to your destiny is something only you can answer.  I've spent years crying out to almost anyone who would listen to me, asking what am I supposed to do, who am I supposed to be, and why in god's name was I born when I was born.  The freedom that comes to you when you finally accept your destiny and begin to walk in it is beyond what you can imagine.  Certainly there will be days when you question things, but having an inner peace that you are where you need to be, when you need to be there is priceless.

I've talked to very few people who are not expecting great things to happen or should I say begin to happen.  Today's eclipse is nothing more then a reminder that the Universe is in charge of everything. When you think about all the things that could happen as a result of this cosmic event, those who have eyes to see, ears to hear, will be in a position to make huge leaps toward their destiny.  Will you be one of those who takes on the challenge, or will you simply watch the sun's dance and think about other things?

Here's what I recommend you do today.  Spend sometime in quiet meditation before the eclipse begins.  When it begins simply open up your spiritual eyes and ears and expect messages and insight to come to you.  If you will set the intention that things are going to break for you, then the universe will make sure that things do in deed break open for you.  You might be waiting for the perfect job, the perfect home, or maybe just maybe all you want is to have that inner peace that shows you all is right with the world and you are exactly where you need to be.  No matter what your needs or wants are, today is the day to expect things to happen.

I was actually going to start writing this blog again next week, but I've been asked to present my book at the Decatur Book Fair in Atlanta, so I will be flying back on Monday.  Since I could not write on Monday I thought I might as well write today, and look what the Universe dropped in my lap, but a great opportunity to set the expectations for each of you of what this solar event can mean to you.  Now there will be those who see nothing from today's happenings.  These are the very same people who walk around day in and day out wondering why the world has passed them by.  Don't be one of those who simply let's things happen and never set the intention of getting what is rightfully yours.  Today is a golden opportunity to start fresh.  Today is the perfect day to say to those around you that you are here for a reason and you will be the person you were intended to be.  Today is your opportunity to grab the bull by the horns and never let go.

I can only say that it feels good to get back to the computer and doing what I love most, and that's writing.  I am so blessed to be able to do what I love, and my wish for you is that today's events will launch you into those possibilities of doing what you love, being who you were meant to be, and changing the world for the better.  Everyone wants to be someone, even if they are not willing to admit it.  Greatness comes to those who have the heart to reach out and accept greatness.  It is time to see what the universe has in store for you, and once you discover the greatness, I promise you, you'll never want to be without it again.  Protect your eyes today, and watch a show that is sure to impress.  Blessings and light to each of you.

Everywhere you turn

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It's as though the world is coming apart at the seams.  No matter where you look there is terror and destruction.  Day after day we are not only hearing about, but also seeing the senseless killing and torture of innocent people, all in the name of beliefs.  We have had to endure endless criticisms about this thing or another as it pertains to what is taking place all over the world.  One groups says it's our fault, one group says it will never ever go away.  We have groups that continue to mock or tear apart opposing views all the while claiming to be open minded.  I guess the only thing I want to know is when will it all stop? When will we live as one, think as one, and more importantly treat everyone with dignity and respect?

Truth is, light is stronger then darkness, but the battle is on my friends, oh the battle is on.  I have never in my life seen such darkness, nor have I seen so many people mocked and ridiculed for trying to be the ones who carry the light.  We were created to create.  We have the ability to create our own lives, able to live free from the darkness that wants to overtake the planet.  The problem is most people are unaware of their unique abilities, and sadly because of this they never walk in the light.  Today I want to encourage you to think about the light.  Today I want to move forward and be a shinning light to those around me, to those who are in darkness, and to those who have lost all hope.

It's so easy to look around and see the chaos.  So many people have lost hope, and for those who haven't they carry with them thoughts of "what can I do about it?"  Everything that has ever been done or orchestrated in this world began with a single thought.  Every new gadget was the product of a dream, an idea.  It is time to take our rightful place and be the light that will destroy the darkness.  I was driving my partner to work this morning and all I could think about was whether there was a single place on this planet that would be free from all the horrors that are going on right now.  Might it be a tiny island somewhere in the middle of an ocean?  Is there a place that is totally free from the destruction that is taking place?  It's so easy to be taken up by what is being shown daily on social media and the Internet.  Surely there must be something we can do to make things right, to change the face of humanity, and give hope to the hopeless.  Well the answer is simple, we need to accept our divinity, our ability to manifest all things, and to demonstrate that we are not merely inhabitants of a mortal body, but rather spiritual beings who can and must shine the light for others to see.

If you look back at history and at those who have made history there is one thing that separates them from those who have done nothing.  That one thing is a belief.  A belief that they have been called to do something great.  Those who have come before us and have succeeded have done so because they would not accept anything less then success.  Certainly there are times when we fail or make mistakes, but we continue on the mission, and never let up.  We need to be those individuals who are unwilling to give up until what we desire to accomplish has been accomplished and we can lay our heads down at night knowing we have done what we were sent here to do.  I have accomplished much in my life, but I can attest that there is much more for me to do, and I can't see myself stopping until I do the things I know are left to do.  Are you going to be the person who pursues their dreams, or will you be the person who will allow darkness to dampen any hope of tomorrow?

There is darkness out there, but your light, our light, and the light of those who have come before us is still present to heal our broken land.  If ever there was a time to honor our creation, now is that time.  If ever there was a time to recognize our abilities, now is that time.  If ever there was a time to take a stand and not give up, now is that time.  We were placed here to accomplish something.  Some will do great things, while others will sit back and simply watch.  I for one wish to be active and not passive when it comes to shinning the light.  What is your desire?  What do you want to see happen and can you believe that what you want will come to be?  It is time to set our intentions and then expect that all things will come about for us.  Those who don't do anything and simply sit back will be the ones who will have to accept whatever comes their way.  I do not wish to be an innocent bystander, I desire to be the one who makes the rules and the one who shines the light.

It is easy to see darkness, but now is the time that we begin to see the light.  It is time for us to shine that light so that no matter where anyone turns they can see it as well.  You have light in you, it is time that you release it and allow others to benefit from it.  The day is fast approaching when everyone will desire the light and you will be one of those who will usher it in for them.  How does that make you feel?  Be a light, and be who you were intended to be.  I promise you that darkness will leave when you make your presence known.

You'll know when it's time, and guess what? It's time!

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We all look for signs.  Signs that tell us  where we're going.  Signs that tell us we are loved and desired.  Signs that ultimately will lead us to the promised land, our True Destiny.   Unfortunately there are many people who never take the time to seek out signs, nor to figure out the proper timing for doing things.  I've been subject to time more then I'd like to admit.  I've tried to figure out the best time to do one thing, and then figure out another time to do something else, all the while just waiting for the perfect time.  The problem with waiting is that you tend to miss much of life, because that is the point in time when life begins to pass you by.  Don't fall prey to this, and don't think life has passed you by.

I dare say that the vast majority of people out in the world today are still waiting for the perfect time to do something.  They're still waiting for the heavens to open up and show them what to do and when to do it.  What are you waiting for?  What sign is going to show up that is going to give you the indication that the time is right, right now, to move forward in those things that you were intended to do with your life?

One of the biggest reasons people don't move forward, why they can't seem to gain any forward progression, is they are scared to death to make a move.  They are petrified to make a wrong move or make a mistake.  Face it, we've all made mistakes and yet we are still here.  Mistakes are going to be made, don't let the possibility of messing things up stop you from ever getting started.  I get that many are waiting for the perfect time to do something, but what constitutes a "Perfect Time"?  Is there such a thing as perfect time, and if or when you run into the perfect time are you going to be able to do something with it?

There's a quote that I have used many times in my writing.  I read this quote for the first time back in 1978.  I was flying to England to begin my tour of duty at RAF Mildenhall with the United States Air Force.  The quote says "I would rather attempt something great and fail, then attempt nothing at all and succeed."  You can have tons of great ideas.  You can be inspired in a million different ways to do something, but until such time as you put action to your thoughts and ideas, then you are still waiting for the perfect time.  There may never be a perfect time, at least in the eyes of the rest of the world, but let me tell you this, the perfect time is the time in which you simply step out into your calling.  Maybe all the planets are not perfectly aligned.  Maybe others have told you it's best to wait it out and see what happens.  You might even get that feeling of nervousness as you contemplate a move.  No matter what you are feeling, no matter what you are thinking, the bottom line is that there will never be a better time to step out then now.  My feeling is that if you are asking if this is the perfect time to do something, then maybe you should consider this a sign that it is the perfect time to begin your journey.  The Heart is always going to tell you the truth, maybe this is a good time to start listening to what your heart is telling you to do.  People discount what they feel in their heart simply because they are not aware of the greatness of the heart or the simple fact that your heart is the primary communicative tool used to connect to your creator.

What is it that you are waiting to do?  If I could flip a switch and make any time the perfect time, what would you be doing when the switch was flipped?  If you are already walking in your destiny, then there are probably things that you still want to do as it pertains to your destiny.  If on the other hand you still have not taken the first steps toward your destiny then what are you waiting for?  The time has never been better to begin your journey.  The simple truth of the matter is that the perfect time is anytime in which you are walking toward or either in your destiny.  Please don't allow others to derail you because they don't think the timing is right to do something.  Their timing is never going to be your timing.

Here's a little hint and I hope you will take it to heart:  if you are wondering if now is the perfect time to do something then you should know that by virtue of you wondering should tell you that now is the time.  There is a change afoot.  Many people are waking up to, and accepting the awesome power they have inside of them.  There is a new age of enlightenment hitting the Universe right now and if you are not open to it, you will miss it.  There has never been a better time for anyone to begin walking out their path then right now.

If you need a sign, then ask for a sign, but by all means be open to them. If you close off possibilities then you are closing off your ability to move forward.  When you ask for a sign you don't have the right to design the sign.  You do however have the right to ignore them, but I might recommend against that.  It is time to move forward, so let today be the day that you step out and begin doing what you were designed to do.